Is this normal? please help?

can be very addicting. He needs to cut all access to from his life or he will always be tempted to go there when he needs to escape. He probably uses the stories to escape from real life because the stories all all fantasy. He likely goes there when hes stresses or he is triggered by something else. No matter how much he tells you hes done, he will not be strong enough to stop if he has access. He needs accountability, he needs men to call him and ask him to be honest. He needs to know how much it hurts you. He needs you to help him out of love, not anger. Good luck!