Should i have got pleasure?? im so cnfused! its so weird!?

well...i was in a relationship a while ago...and it was always just on my mind..that when he fingered me i got no pleasure?? AT ALL!!! i also got a li** ou* from him...which again gave me NO pleasure!! no whi stongue never actually went in me..jus lickd around..i dont think he knew what he was doing..but still should i have got pleasure form that? Or does his tongue have to go in me before i feel pleasure? Another reason was that i was really starting to unlike him...we did break up a while later..i didn really have feelings 4 him at the time.....was all this normal? or is there something wrong with my body?